Do men on social media all get the same memo?

Men are so terribly afraid of having any kind of human relationship with women it's absolutely sickening. But what must that be like, to be someone who doesn't fall in love? By the time I was this pediatric surgeon's age (24) I had been in love more times than I can remember (often unrequited but it still counts!) I mean, it must make your life so much more predictable, which I guess comes in handy when you're in med school.

But I'm so sick of them always asking "what are you here for" because the answer they're looking for is always "casual sex." It's like they're so afraid you'll fall in love with them or something.  Dudes get over yourselves.